Most romantic relationships go through a common pattern. You might have noticed or experienced this pattern yourself. The first few months of a relationship are absolutely wonderful. You and your partner just can’t get enough of each other and your hearts are full of passion and love. Then, as the months pass, you begin to lose that shine and things start becoming repetitive and predictable.
As more time passes, you start becoming more distant as your focus shifts. Even when you have moments of togetherness, they seem short-lived, and in some cases, forced. Eventually, if things don’t change, such a relationship meets its inevitable end.
However, there are many ways you can keep that spark alive and the love you have for your partner grow stronger with time. One such way is the tantric massage. If used properly and with sincerity, it can be a positive influence on your relationship.
It is an ancient spiritual practice that has been crafted carefully with an understanding of how human physicality and emotions work. It is a special type of massage based on tantric principles of energy flow and involves stimulating the entire body. Although people often think that it is an erotic massage, a tantric massage also incorporates breathwork, meditation, and mindfulness. An orgasm is not typically the end goal of this massage.
A tantric massage is more than just physical sensuality and pleasure. It ventures into the realms of emotions, energy, and spirituality and can be a bonding experience for both you and your partner.
Benefits of tantric massage include:
Couples often start losing intimacy as their relationships mature. As intimacy is a primal need of every human being, you can use tantric massage to connect with your partner in a more meaningful way. When you are massaging each other’s entire bodies with love and grace, touching all their special areas, there is often a rekindling of lost emotions.
If you instill an element of mindfulness and meditation into the experience, you will get much better results. Both you and your partner will be fully present in the moment with no external thoughts interrupting this special time. You can exist in the presence of each other exclusively, just as you used to do at the start of your relationship.
One reason why you lose the spark with your partner is that things become monotonous. Following the same routine, every single day can be boring. Instead of looking at your partner with a sense of suspense and awe, you start looking at them like a book that you’ve read many times! The same applies to the way they view you too. Tantric massage can help.
The moment you agree to engage in tantric massage, it kickstarts a sense of adventure. It is an entirely new thing that both of you can enjoy and that breaks the monotony. As tantric massages are so sensual and pleasurable, it is something to look forward to.
In most cases, couples become distant because each one thinks that the other no longer understands them, even if that is not the case. So, couples need to engage in activities that leave no doubt that they are being understood by their partners.
A tantric massage session requires complete openness, both on the physical side as well as the emotional side. When you run your hands along your partner’s body, you understand what arouses them, what they like, what they don’t like, and how you can take them to cloud nine. The same applies to you too. As you show passion and attention in treating their body, they will realise that you still care. This alone can get the sparks going again!
Although a tantric massage is not only about sexuality, it can be used to explore it in a safe space. It can help you and your partner to explore your sexual energies beyond physicality. Tantric massage can help your bond transcend the limitations of your bodies and you will begin to see each other as manifestations of divine energy that are one and the same.
If established, such a connection can enhance your loving relationship. If problems arise, both of you can deal with them as a team as there will no longer be a “you vs me” situation. It will always be an “us” situation.
One thing that can damage a relationship is infidelity.
Tantric massage can keep both of you faithful to each other. This is because, the experience is so sacred, sublime, and powerful that you can’t imagine doing it with anyone else. There needs to be love, care, respect, and a sense of giving to be able to truly enjoy this type of massage. It will assist to keep you physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually satisfied with each other.
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